I have just recently thought about it. Why does men think that they are in control of women? What did we women do, make them actually thinks they are in control of us, and the situation? We must have done something that makes them think that way, didn't we?
So I have thought about it and here are the 5 lists of reasons why they think they are in control of us.
1. Crying
Crying. C’mon. Most of the girls cries all the time!! We cry when we are sad, we cry when we couldn’t contain our anger and most of the time we accidentally ended up with tears rolling down our cheeks. Us crying makes them think we are really vulnerable and we need them to hug us and to coax us to chill us down, or to make us feel better. And there, they kind of control the situation don’t they?
2. Having a thinner skull than theirs, and not having such big broad shoulders
Physically different. Yes. We women will always have smaller bones than most of the guys out there. We women, can be really short, and might never grow and stuck at 147cm (my height) for the rest of our lives. (quite a sad thing yeah)
And not able to reach the shelf, and we need guys to help us to grab things off the shelf especially during marketing… And here, we showed them that we actually need them in life.
3. Having 4x brain cells connecting the right and the left side of our brains.
Yes. That is why we think so much more in the words we use, and you guys might just think we are vulnerable because we have more emotion cells than you. But it’s true that women can always hold in emotional pain more than guys, and that’s a thumb up guys.
Just bare with us a little bit more, because all these cells inside makes us unable to control our thoughts and emotions.
4. Society makes it that way
The society deems it that way. It’s true because the society portray us women as weakening, and shows everyone that we need guys in our lives, because we need them to hold us in our darkest times. Which can be true but only at times.
5. They are stronger
They are stronger, physically. We can’t deny this fact. When they’re stronger, it indirectly means that we are weak compare to them, and if we weren’t in their control, they would make us by force. Sounds legit? I think so.
