Important qualities that make physical attractiveness seem insignificant.
Don’t get me wrong, physical appearance is important, but it shouldn’t be most important trait to look for in someone you date. Believing that it’s the only criteria that matters will only lead to superficial, shallow relationships. The person you date should be somebody whose company you enjoy, and whose presence makes your life better.
Here are 6 differences between a beautiful girl and just another pretty face. The traits listed below are some important qualities that make physical attractiveness seem insignificant.
‘Sometimes people are beautiful. Not in looks. Not in what they say. Just in what they are.” – Markus Zusak
1) Passion
Few traits are more seductive than having a zeal for life. When someone has found her passion, she comes alive in a way that draws you in, even on the first date. It makes you want to back her up and help her succeed — not that she needs your assistance. She was passionate about her work and her life long before you arrived. You’re hooked to the the light in her eyes and the excitement in her voice when she talks about her passion. The good thing about passionate people is that they are passionate about almost everything in their lives.
Dating a passionate woman with the zest and energy required to live her life the way she wants to live is always an adventure that you would be a fool to turn down.
2) She has clear goals.
Goals portray self-awareness and independence. Setting goals shows that a women is mature enough to define her own wants from life; she knows clearly who she is today, and who she wants to be, tomorrow.
An independent woman is a catch because she can help you grow as a person, will not be needy, has enough self-esteem to have her own life, and understands your need for space as well.
3) Standards
Her standards for herself, for the people she surrounds herself with, and for the way other people treat her, are respectable. Attractive women don’t let anyone walk on them, and they make that known far in advance, in the most tasteful way possible.
Having standards doesn’t show a superiority complex, it shows she understands her own self-worth – and she holds herself to that standard.
4) She’s close to her family.
You can tell a lot about the future of your relationship by the way she treats her own family. An importance placed within the home tells you instantly that her priorities have not become jaded. It’s very easy to become fixated on your own day-to-day life, and lose sight of the people who were there since day one.
Being close to her family shows that she truly appreciates the important people in her life, and she will, one day, grow to appreciate you too.
5) Spontaneity
Over time, by following the same monotonous routine, things just gets old – even with the people you love. That’s just human nature. Find a girl who will book an impromptu trip with you to the Philippines, or skip work to ride around town with you – whatever it is, I firmly believe that spontaneity is key to maintaining healthy relationships.
When you find a girl who doesn’t hesitate to go on an adventure with you, hold on to her.
6) Maturity in dealing with her relationships
A girl who is mature is honest, upfront and sees no reason to use power plays in a romantic context.
She understands that in a tough world prone to constant fighting and conflict, your romantic relationship is not the place for all that. She sees your relationship as a place for mutual respect and generosity, that at every disagreement the both of you should be able to meet on common ground and resolve things with maturity.
She is a person who is always looking for ways for the two of you to improve. If you do not find this trait attractive, then perhaps it’s because you lack it yourself and fail to recognise its value.