I have always been a very friendship person in my whole entire life. Friends are so important to me, and if this friendship is real, I would do everything for you. To me, friendship is just like being in a relationship, except that you don’t do the sex part. I have gotten my heart broken in a friendship quite a couple of times, and it’s all because you expect more than just that much.
Friendships, like romantic relationships, are a two-way street. You both need to put in time, love, and effort in order to blossom and grow as close companions.
We have friends all around; have friends as young as we started our pre-school. But, what kind of friends will break your heart? And how?
Here is a the list of 10 ways to break my heart in a friendship:
1. Neglecting me.
It is very important to NOT neglect someone in a friendship. How do I define neglect: not replying messages, not meeting up and catching up in life (on purpose).
I would make time for you, and I honestly expect the same from the other party (which is you). It doesn’t make any sense if only one person is making the effort.
2. Trying to shake me off because of someone new.
This. This is real okay people.
I have a couple of guy friends that actually “ignore” me just because they got into a relationship and their insecure girlfriends didn’t want them to talk to me. This is just completely ridiculous.
Before you got into a relationship, I am your plus one for everything. You think and worry for me, I get my daily goodnight messages and our friendship was really strong and here comes a girl that ruins it all. Fuck this. Really. It hurts.
3. Caught you lying.
I hate liars. I repeat, I hate liars and so please don’t lie to me.
4. Making me a second choice; not a priority.
You suck. Really.
5. Going behind my back, talking stuffs about me.
I hate this part the most. I really do. I mean, aren’t you suppose to be my friend? And yeah, if you are my friend, why are you doing this? Why are you going behind my back and say stuffs about me, especially when it’s untrue?
Did you just say those stuffs? Behind my back? Really.
6. Talking to my guys.
I mean I don’t care about guys. But, why are you even doing this?
7. Stealing my food.
FOOD IS REAL. ESPECIALLY THE FOOD I LOVE. PLEASE. PLEASE STOP STEALING MY FAVOURITE FOOD.
I AM SERIOUS ABOUT THIS.
8. Breaking your own heart.
It hurts me to see guys break my friend’s hearts. Please baby, I love you and stop torturing yourself.
It pains me to see you in pain. Truth.
9. Hurting yourself. Being mean to yourself.
Please do not self-harm. By self-harm I mean, do not cut yourself, do not starve yourself, do not fast, do not purge, do not allow yourself to go through all these by yourself.
You have me, always.