This is a common topic among girls, let me share with you about the qualities I look for in a man.
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#1 Sense of Humour
Who wants to hang out with a guy that never makes you laugh? Not me for sure. I don’t like guys who don’t have the ability to laugh off jokes and I find it annoying when they take every joke very personally and serious. I can’t be friends with someone like this, let alone a date. No way.
#2 Loyal
Who doesn’t want a man who is man enough to be loyal and faithful to one woman only? If he was unfaithful in his last relationship, you'd better keep a lookout on him because that is not a good sign. Don’t you find it insulting when the man you’re with hits on other women? I find it disgusting.
#3 Honesty
Honesty is a key in building trust and open lines of communication. Once I caught someone lying to me the chances of trusting that person again is as close to zero. I am sure that I’m not the only one here who thinks like that. Can you trust someone who lies to you constantly? Regardless it’s a big or small, lies are lies. That’s the fact! I think that it’s an excuse if someone has to lie to “protect” their partners' feelings, why doesn’t it occur to you that if you don’t do it, you don’t have to lie about it?
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“The worst thing about being lied to is simply knowing you weren’t worth the truth.”
I can’t stand guys or I should say I HATE IT when a guy says “you should trust me”. Trust is earned by actions young boy. If you violate someone’s trust, please put in effort into making amends rather than ensuring them with your words only. Words not backed by actions are meaningless.
#4 Intelligence
I am attracted to smart men who will teach me stuff that I don’t know, or when I’m in the midst of planning something I will usually ask my men for business and life advices. I really enjoy it when they can keep up with my conversation. Rather than giving me a stupid typical answer like “I don’t know/ It’s up to you or your choice”.
#5 Secure, protect me
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Talking about this, I once dated a guy who did not stand up for me when a random Malay man brushed his elbow against my breast when I was walking past. Of course I stood up for myself and shouted at him and askws the Malay dude if he thought that it’s funny to do such act to women. And the coward that I was dating asked me to stop making a big fuss and let it go instead. lol. Even me as a woman, will stand up for other women if I see drunkards harassing/ molesting girls. Shouldn’t we make this world a better place? I really hope someone will do the right thing if they see something like this happening.
Unlike the China society where they act as if nothing happened even when they saw it, I believe that Singaporeans are different. We are not as kia si (scared die) as what everyone thinks.
#6 Filial/ Respect Women
I can’t stand it when guys start yelling at their parents in front of me. If you want to be rebellious, go fucking do it outside and not at home, let alone do it to your family. Your mom and dad brought you into this world. I’ve seen people scolding their moms and making her cry in front of other people before. Your mom didn’t go through 9 months of pregnancy to see an unfilial son!
All these are very generic qualities that most women find in a man I guess, teehee!