People who experience a bad french kiss will remember it! I certainly do.
There were some guys who turned my legs jelly and took my breath away. And there were some who made me reel in horror from having my lips suctioned painfully like a vacuum or having my face lapped by his tongue. Seriously, a big turn off. The first full on kiss can indeed make or break a budding relationship. In 5 simple but helpful steps, here’s exactly what to do with your tongue when kissing.
1. Start with a normal kiss. Start out slowly and then part your lips a bit. It doesn't have to be a full-on, open mouth kiss with your tongue down his throat straight away. Just a little lick is a good way to start.
2. Remember to relax your tongue, you are not launching it against a dart board. A stiff tongue or rapid in out motions is not sensual at all. Make your tongue soft and its motions gentle and slow.
3. Once you start to get the hang of it, the next thing to do with your tongue is to swirl it in a circular motion within his open lips, during the kiss.
4. Run the tip of your tongue around your guy's teeth, play with his tongue and even suck on his tongue gently for few seconds, it will feel surprisingly amazing.
5. You can also mimic what he does with his tongue. If it feels good on you, it must feel good on him too. Plus, people usually kiss others in a way that they themselves would like to be kissed.
It’s really quite simple isn’t it! So don’t be afraid to get your tongue in on the action the next time you kiss. And don’t forget to combine tongue kisses with slow and soft kisses, neck kisses, cheek kisses, all kinds of kisses. Enjoy!