All women have two common questions as far as relationships are concerned.
Is he serious about me? Where is this relationship headed?
These gut twisting and nerve-wrecking questions leave every woman with a somewhat unclear picture of her future, especially, on whether they’re on the same page or if he’s just stringing her along.
I know you never want to waste months or even years on a man who has no intention to love you for a lifetime. To save yourself time, energy and unnecessary heartbreaks, you should find out whether he will really commit or if he is just taking you for those common relationship rides. Here are eight signs that show your man might never be ready to commit.
He never includes you in his plans
If every plan he makes only has an “I” throughout, it becomes clear he has no intention of making you part of his life. If he talks about his future and never puts you in the big picture of his life, it may be a sign that he does not truly care about you.
He doesn’t make a point to meet regularly
If he disappears for more than a week, and doesn’t bother to explain where he has been, then it is clear that he has no room for you in his life. A man who is committed to the relationship will always let you know where he is, what he is doing and give you an assurance that he is always thinking about you.
He has no interest to introduce you to his parents
If you raise the question of seeing his parents and he objects, it is a clear sign that he is not ready for commitment. If he shouts at you, tends to be busy or nag whenever you raise the “introduce me to your parents” topic, your man is not ready for this relationship for real.
He’s never concerned about your goals
If he doesn’t want to talk about your feelings, hopes, dreams and desires for the future, it may be time to untie the relationship knots. If he loves you, he will care about how you feel, and listen to you. He will make your decisions his and your life’s desires part of himself.
He often talks of other girls
A man who loves you will never talk about other girls when he is with you. He will never have the time to think that the girls he meets at work are hotter than you are and will make you feel like you are the only woman in the world.
He hates work
The reality of life is that work is life. If he cannot hold a job or hates work, even if he has a position in the best company in town, then he is afraid of responsibility. If he cannot hold a job, it is highly unlikely that he will be able to take care of a family in future.
His actions are contrary to what he says
He constantly says one thing and then does another. He has no stand, and never takes anything between the both of you seriously.
He makes you feel less when with his friends
If he loves you and is ready to be with you, he will make you feel special by telling your friends you are the only one for him. If the both of you are together with his friends and he doesn’t seem to notice you, it could be a sign that the man you once loved has always been a stranger.