It had been really stressful the past 2years, I still can’t believe this journey has come to an end. Although I am still waiting for my exam results, I’m quite confident that I have cleared them nicely except for that project.
And as much as I hate to admit, I really miss school. I know right, what the crap? I have been looking forward to today, but now I hope to go back to the studying days. I have been thinking a lot lately, I guess I’m still lost, still figuring out what the hell I want. Anyways enough of my crap, today I’m supposed to share with you how I usually relax and take my mind off stressful situations. :D
I usually do things that I enjoy. Like watching drama, movies and youtube videos.. read or go out and brisk walk. I really want to jog like normal people but unfortunately I can’t.
I dance as well, usually by searching workout or dancing videos on youtube. Oh and I really feel like playing squash. I thought it looks damn fun! Haha. and how can I forget! Music. I used to hate music but now I can’t live without it. I love postrock, but it gives me bad memories. Oh well..
Actually I’m quite a workaholic, I prefer to finish my tasks first before relaxing. Didn’t they all say bitter first then sweet? But it all depends, really. Because the mind is a scary thing, it wanders and goes wild. It is way too toxic. So sometimes I will take a break in order to adjust back to the right mindset.
Another way to destress is to cry it out. I love to listen to sad music or watch sad movies in order to cry it ALL OUT. This is a good way to let the negative feelings out.. for me at least, and I actually shout and scream at home too when I’m too stress hahahahha! Oops.
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As for gaming.. I am not really a gamer. Recently I’m into some mobile games like the bubble witch, fashion game and home design. I know right, damn kiddy but I don’t care. Hahaha. they are cute! Especially the home design one.
For my next article, I want to write more about post rock. I hope more people can start listening and appreciating post rock music. It’s really cool and gosh.. I really don’t know how to describe. But probably people who went through tough times then will appreciate it. sometimes it touches me so deeply I’m speechless. I can cry listening to it. The music totally brings me to another world, another dimension.
In a way it helps me to destress too, but it brought me a lot of sad memories which is SAD because I really love the music but hais…
For starters I recommend hammock and explosions in the sky. Not all are good though. Be patient and pick the right ones. =D
I guess everyone has their own ways of relaxing, if not majority of the Singaporeans would have gone crazy.. right? Haha. By the way I used different methods every now and then. Sometimes it could be shopping, make up and etc. but I guessed I have change. I can’t really explain in what way, but too much things have happened this year and I think I have changed..
Jiayou everybody!
The Happiest Time of the Day?
When I was working full time, the happiest time of the day is when the clock strikes 6pm. BUT I don’t think I was really genuinely happy? It’s more like a relief. And when I reached home, there are more things to do, so what is there to be happy about.
Now I’m married and on many occasions I thought about how life would be different once I start living with Simon. After a long day would I feel happy when I reached home or would I feel frustrated because there will be a tons of housework to do? So this lead to the next question, should we hire a helper so we will have more time? Especially if there are kids in the future we will surely be swamped.
To make it clearer, I am still saying I will be happy when I reached home as my husband will be there to comfort and console me. But I still think the initial excitement will not last long, this is life isn’t it? It will become a kind of peaceful happiness but not the kind of passionate excitement. Passion and excitement does not last forever and it gets us nowhere and nothing, that I have learnt.
Hais.. Wouldn’t it be better if we have more time in this world? I think the happiest time of the day is when I am going to sleep and the unhappiest time of the day is when I have to wake up for work. This is then realistic.
But let’s be positive, at least there are weekends. I remember when I was younger weekends are for shopping but now I just wanna ‘nua’ at home, read, watch shows and sleep. This is the 25years old me, I’m so lazy. But lucky Simon will bring me go hiking.. keep me fit and active! It is kinda scary I think about the 6months when I was not with him.. lol the whole time I was just eating. -_-!
It’s really important to have an exercise buddy to motivate each other. :p though I feel like he exercised lesser now when he is back with me. HAHA. oops and I make him eat more.
Oh yah, happiest time of the day.. how can I forget about food? It sucks when I love food but I want to be slim. Zzz. Sometimes I just cannot control my food intake. Suddenly I am thinking about the happiest moment of my life. and now I am stucked again.. lets brainstorm this together. Okay I shall stop here. Bye!
