People say that men and women can never be just friends. And most women have female best friends. But have you ever thought about the benefits of having a male best friend? Having a platonic male friend is not only possible, but it can be quite advantageous too.
For instance:
1. He will be honest when you want his opinion, such as if a dress fits you well or not. Men who are not sleeping with you will be more truthful and candid with you. And women tend to lie in order to protect your feelings.
2. He genuinely likes you for who you are, and not because of how you look. It is not about physical attraction, but a platonic love based on your character and personality.
3. There’s no jealousy… no boyfriend snatching or flirting. He’s not in competition with you in any way. You basically have a relationship that enables you to have fun together, as there are no ulterior motives or intense emotions.
4. He’s not clingy. Female friends tend to be more cliquey and want to do everything together. They might even take offence if you want space away from them. Men don’t have that kind of hang ups.
5. Male friends will not be bringing drama into your life. There will be less whining, and less crying.
6. Your secrets are safe. Guys do not gossip as much as women do. You can trust him with your secrets, and not worry he’ll go cackling to other women.
7. He can give you the male perspective when you need relationship advice. If you are seeking advice on understanding your boyfriend, a male friend is the one to ask.