...and isn’t going to change.
Drinking and dancing can be a great way to free pent-up stress and to socialise. So everyone loves to party once in awhile… especially so when you are single. Perhaps you even met your BF at a party or club!
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But now that you are a couple, it’s not very realistic to keep up that constant party lifestyle that single people enjoy. You have switched gears. Something is different, there are other relationship bonding activities that you want to do… like visit places of interest, or have nights in where you cook a meal together and have a movie marathon.
He may have even told you that he too wishes to stop clubbing as much, maybe he has even said, partying is not as fun as it was before. And yet… ladies night, Friday nights, Saturday nights… there he is at the clubs. Even if you can’t go along with him, he’s still out there… with the boys, or with his female friend who he insists he has no attraction to. Sorry to say, if your boyfriend shows any of these 8 signs, then he’s a party animal who is not ready to leave his bachelor partying lifestyle behind.
A lot of drinking
Unwinding with a drink after a long day or having a few beers when he’s out for dinner is not an issue. But if you notice he’s still drinking a lot, and is tipsy at least one night a week or is hiding his drinking habits, there might be an issue.
MUST GO TO Newest Party Spots
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Whether it is a new club or an event, he especially jumps at the chance to check out the new hot spot for partying as-soon-as he learns about it. Showing keenness for something new is good, but when he’s only excited when he gets to check-out a club or go drinking, it is an issue. If he is serious about leaving his partying days behind, then the new hot spots should not be so enticing to him.
Random Phone Calls
Having trust in your partner is vital to a happy relationship. But if you notice that he is getting tests or calls from different numbers, keeps making new ‘friends’, that is something to take note of. He might be letting his partying get in the way of his priorities.
He is Easily Bored
He’s not interested or engaged in your couple time together. When you bring up having a date night in, he will agree to it but keep putting it off to a later date. There’s always a party he has to be at, or friends he has to see at different events. Staying in with you doesn’t have the same appeal.
Too Many Boys Nights
Boy’s nights let him unwind with his friends, but there are more ways to spend time with his boys other than at the clubs. So watch out if his boys nights out are just an excuse for him to go partying without you.